Seductive. Smooth. Sparkling. Here's how to find the perfect pairing for your Valentine's dinner, no matter whom you're celebrating
Early stages of romance: Spontaneous gifts, romantic gestures, and sweet surprises make dating exhilarating. Pinot Noir is the ultimate romantic wine, seducing the senses with its layered aromas and flavors. Spring for a good-quality bottle from Oregon to get the full effect, like the 2006 Erath Estate Selection ($30) or the 2006 Chehalem "Three Vineyards" ($27).
Newlywed: The first few years of marriage are one long romance, and a trio of Champagne, chocolate and roses is still a classic. Play on the newlywed theme with the Iron Horse Wedding Cuvee from California ($33) or the Deutz Amour Blanc de Blancs 1999 Champagne ($199).
Seasoned marriage: Time to put the spice back with a smooth, sultry, New World-style red wine like Shiraz or Merlot. Try the 2004 Rutherford Hill Merlot ($25) from Napa Valley, a seductively silky wine heady with excitement.
Just the girls: As one of the oldest wine regions in the world, Italy produces fabulous wines that have stood the test of time–just like your girlfriends. Try the 2007 Santa Margherita Pinot Grigio ($26) and the 2006 Chianti Classico ($26) with a big pot of spaghetti.
Couples get-together: Pink bubbly gives off a tinge of romance, but isn't overt in a group setting. Try the 2001 Chandon Etoile Rose ($34), which has a pretty salmon color and a rich, fruity taste.
Group of friends: Greeks considered philia, or friendship, the highest emotion possible. Keep the mood convivial with a good-quality, widely-appealing white and red each, like Trimbach 2006 Riesling ($16) and Francis Coppola 2006 Zinfandel ($15).
Family: Toast your family's comfortable companionship, loyalty, and love with an inexpensive Cava for adults (try the organic Tarantas for $13) and Knudsen Organic Sparkling Pear or Apple Juice ($3) for the kids, served with frosted heart-shaped sugar cookies.
Flying solo: Celebrate being alone, but not lonely, with a glass of your own favorite wine–no compromising required! Stuck for ideas? Try snuggling up with a good book, a roaring fire, and a glass of Port, a sweet, heady red wine that inspires warm and fuzzy feelings.
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Gretchen Roberts, founder and editor of Vinobite.com, is at the upper end of the Millennial generation, old enough to have a decade of wine-drinking under her belt but young enough to know that wine is about three important things: finding a great bottle at a good value, vicariously exploring the world, and having fun with friends. Roberts writes about wine for Wine Enthusiast, MyRecipes.com, Cooking Light, and Slashfood.com.