Place Basic Breading Mix for Fried Foods in a shallow bowl. Combine 1/2 cup soy milk and eggs in a separate shallow bowl, stirring with a whisk. Dredge steaks in breading mix. Dip in egg mixture; dredge again in breading mix.
Coat a large skillet with cooking spray. Add 1 tablespoon oil; place over medium-high heat until hot. Fry 2 steaks in hot oil 4 minutes on each side or until golden brown. Transfer steaks to a platter. Repeat procedure with remaining 1 tablespoon oil and remaining 2 steaks, reserving drippings in pan.
Combine remaining 1 1/2 cups soy milk, cornstarch, salt, and pepper in a 2-cup glass measure, stirring with a whisk until smooth. Stir milk mixture into drippings in pan. Bring to a boil over medium-high heat; cook, stirring constantly, 1 minute or until thickened. Spoon gravy over steaks. Sprinkle evenly with parsley.